Yes my dd father lives 3 hrs away but always has. This story is a little too long to write. So here is a little. He hasn't seen her since her 3rd birthday. The last time I invited him down after we moved he took it upon himself to invite others with out telling me so I told h I'm I was going to reschedule because I was going to visit my grandmother. He told me I couldn't do that and that there was plans already made. I told him I can do just that and my grandmother was more important then aany plans you might have made. I just took that as what the hell...you never see your kid and you have the nerve to tell me I can't change my plans. Anyways...I just blew it off and never invited him again.
Fast forward I have told him twice I was in his home state...half hour from where he lives. One time took h I'm almost a week to reply to an email . This last time never replied.
But now with the holidays...I feel new year and she is more aware of him...I feel I need to extend out to him for her.
Btw I was done with him with pictures and updates but he out of nowhere asks about her.
She will be five in march.
What do you all think?