He thinks I'm selfish and spiteful because I spy on him, because he loves to be chit chatty with other women. I can't stand have ask and told him to stop, but won't.
When we fight he brings up how he is here only for the kids not for me. I only get some of the perks. In my head I have it as a relationship.
He has told me it is but isn't one, tells me he loves me, will do things when I ask him to.
I have been starting to talk to a therapist, because I have serious issues, but I want to convince him that he needs it to.