I never thought Id be the one searching out this group on CM. I never thought I would be a single mom, until December 15th. My Soon to be ex husband came up to me on the 12th and said he didnt think we could make it. I begged him to wait until after christmas. The next day on the 13th, he decided to try to make it work. So we proceeded on with our marriage. On the 15th him and I had an arguement and he walked out the door, right into the home of another woman. I never thought he was cheating, not even for a moment until that day. I never realized he was, I didnt even want to think about it. The next day I filed for divorce as well as got the paperwork ready to be filed for emergency custody of our 2 year old baby boy and our 8 month old baby girl. The last week and a half his girlfriend and him have made it hell on me. I just stopped trying to get him to see the kids. I figured if he wanted to bad enough he could look me up on facebook. I blocked his and her numbers. And Now Im proceeding to pick up the pieces. I have a lot to pick up. I discovered the bills hadnt been paid in 2 months, but she has a houseful of new stuff. I found out where the money went, when I started asking him questions. Im getting ready to move to a place I can afford by myself. It hasnt been easy, but he hasnt exactly made it easy on me either. Im not really hurting, Im kinda relieved its over. He wasnt exactly the best spouse. He wasnt exactly anything. Didnt hold a job, was abusive. Im happy hes gone. But now I have to pick up the pieces and push through everything I can. :) Wish me luck Everyone and thank you!