I just found this site today. My husband of 8 years left us the day after Christmas. I thought we were really happy, but he says that he needs a "re-set" button on his life, whatever that means LOL. We have a 6 month old little girl who is my everything. I work full time and then take care of her at night, so I am just not sure how to make time for myself or how to heal. I hurt so bad and am so scared of the future.