I am very confused and don't know the right thing to do if you guys had read my previous post I basically had mention that I'm in a relationship crisis with my babys daddy,
basically my baby daddy hasn't been giving me the affection and attention that I've been seeking for I've been with a man for 5 years we currently have a daughter who is 3 years old he is 30 years old and I'm 24 years old when we had our daughter we basically was sleeping at his parents house he's a family oriented guy,
I don't know if this helps but he's a Filipino and I'm Portuguese but anyways our relationship has been going downhill, he's such a mama's boy always puts his mom befor me in a relationship whatevers his mom says he does if his mom says let me go ahead and take your daughter out to do errands to my boyfrien, he basically goes ahead and listen to his mom and have her take my daughter out like don't get me wrong I don't mind his mom taking our daughter out but when I say no I want his mom to respect my decision but she won't there was this time she wanted to take my daughter out to Chuck E Cheese with my daughters cousins and I said no because I just got home from work I want to relax with my daughter so he told him to tell his mom noand his mom b****** and said no I'm taking her with me and its like no we're the parents and she's like no I'm taking her with me and my boyfriend stood up to his mom just like one time and she b****** out because she didn't get her way and she basically said how dare you you change my son he was never like this...
it just pisses me off that he is such a mama's boy and will do whatever he can to make her happy but anyways years later we moved out of his mom's place but we moved into his uncle studio for some reason he is not.ready to leave his family
I have been under a lot of stress so what do i do I go ahead and try to seek some attention elsewhere to try to find some happiness elsewhere so last summer of 2013 I had a summer seasonal job I dated this 19 year old behind baby dadys back which was stupid of me to do but I did and we lasted for 3 months after me decidibg c 19 year old can't provide for me I decided to call it a relationship in this punk ass kid go psycho on me he basically tells me if I don't end up with him he is going to expose that I dated him behind baby daddies back we had some pictures of us kissing in my stupid ass send him some inappropriate pictures of me so this stupid ass kid go ahead and send pictures to my boyfriends family and to my boyfriend exposing what went down during the summer so now my relationship is destroyed anyways 3 months later my boyfriend decides to work it out with me
it's just that he's not ready to expose me to his family and let them know that he's giving me a second chance so everytime I see him when I go to uncles place he keeps on telling me to hop the fence or not to talk that loud it's just so childish its like really can you just grow a pair and tell them that we're working out I don't know but anyways the day to his mom found out she busted up into her place and she basically called me a b**** and she basically said I will do everything in my power to make sure you don't end up back with my son.
I no longer and living with my boyfriend because his uncle kicked me out I'm leaving over here back at my parents house so me and my boyfriend has been sharing our daughter every week like I had my daughter last week and this week it's his turn it's just very stressful
but anyways part of me wants to talk to the baby daddy and just be like look because of your mom disrespecting me and calling me a b**** and saying she no longer wants me in your life makes me question myself why am I even allowing my daughter to continue to see your mom your mom needs to understand that me and my daughter our package deal by your mom saying she wants me out of your life is saying she wants her granddaughter out of her life so your mom needs to understand that in order for her to see your grandchild it mean that she would have to respect the decision of mining home business and allowing you to make your decisions of giving me a second chance and having me in your life
like whenever my boyfriend told his mom I'm thinking about giving her a chance had got his mom pissed and had made her want to contact the pocket on Facebook and she has a punk kid to send more pictures in the.stupid ass jerk it send it more pictures
but anyways I just don't know what to do part of me wants to talk to my boyfriend tomorrow and tell him what I no longer want your mom to see my daughter because of her disrespect me and calling me a b**** and saying she doesn't want me to be with you I just want her to understand by her saying she doesn't want me your life means she doesn't want her granddaughter her life because believe it or not me and my daughter are packaged deal I don't know if I should say this to him or not I'm worried its going to add more fuel to the fire and cause more arguments I just wanted to vent about this
I hope to hear some positive feedback of what you guys. think I should do