Hello everyone! Is anyone in the cafemom group widows club? I have tried to join twice and it has been about a month and I have not been able to join. Any widows here? I do not know any widows my own age, 42. The widows around here are much older and their kids are grown up while I have 4 kids ages 16 to 8. It is very hard for me. I have even tried to join bereavement groups and all are older, in their 70s! My husband passed away last month.