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my lack of judgement is cloudy, advice..

Posted by on Feb. 27, 2014 at 12:42 AM
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I have a dilemma. There is this guy that used to be my friend with benefit right after my ex cheated and left me. He ended up in a relationship so we remained friends for awhile and then stopped contact. He contacted me today saying he misses me, thought about me and all that other stuff. I have not been with a guy in almost a year and this guy is hot. But for me he is not dating/relationship material. Would it be wrong of me to contact him just for an easy lay? I know it sounds bad but I miss the sex. I don't want a relationship at all. I know that I'm not ready for.
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superdivamom727
by Bronze Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:33 AM
Well if there isn't any feelings involved and your perfectly fine about what your doing and handling your sex life like an responsible adult then I don't see it as a problem..
Jenn8604
by Silver Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:36 AM
Don't forget the condom. You don't want any STD he may have picked up from the chick(s) he's been with since you.
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wendythewriter
by Bronze Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 7:58 AM

As long as you use protection, and you are clear with him about what you're looking for here (or rather, not looking for), then I guess there's nothing wrong with it.

Callaly
by Jessica on Feb. 27, 2014 at 8:23 AM

 Use protection, is he single or still in a relationship? If single go for it.

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Feb. 27, 2014 at 9:46 AM

Condom, and make sure he knows your intentions.

LilMamaK
by Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 11:43 AM

 If there are no strings attached and you are being adults about it, why not?

 Mommy to a beautiful daughter (7.5.08), Stepmom to an amazing son(6.5.07), and Angel baby boy(3.6.10)

cjsmom1
by Gold Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 8:54 PM

As long as you're both single and use protection then I don't see a problem

DreamLoveBlooms
by Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 9:14 PM

If he's not relationship material just be careful in the bedroom. He may have something. Other than that I don't see anything wrong with sexual satisfaction. I really wish they made detailed blow up dolls for women. I mean men get suction and life like women What do we get? A dildo that is cold LOL

LifeCafe42
by Nora on Feb. 27, 2014 at 11:05 PM


Quoting cjsmom1:

As long as you're both single and use protection then I don't see a problem

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