My dd father came to visit her today at my grandmother's. it was a very good experience and that is what is so important. She is at an age that she is starting to really understand about family and such. I guess I am still so angry about the past but I really want to let it go. I made all the effort for the past five years. I text him pictures. I tell him when we were in town( in state) and most of the time to be ignored. No joke, anyways, I really want her to have a father but it so difficult to accept someone that didnt even want her. Doesn't make an effort, ok two times in about two weeks, but how do I let go of all the hurt and anger. I try to be nice. I really do. I am not bickering with him. He doesn't even call. Has never called. I have told him when she has been sick or when were were moving or anything pertaining to her.
How do you let go of the anger and the hurt from the past that it seems so fresh?
We are all single mom's on here and yes we have only one side of our stories obviously.
I am not ready to let her go with a stranger and she won't. How do I have her have a relationship with him and I guess the other family with out have all this resentment?