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How Long Does It Take Us Women To Know....

Posted by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 11:08 AM
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I know it's a little early for sex talk (or is it?) but I heard that a woman knows if she's gonna give the goods up to a guy in the first few minutes.

Is this true? How long does it take you to know whether you want to pounce on a guy or not?fingers crossed

by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 11:08 AM
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krisnkids
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 11:11 AM
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I've known that I wanted to pounce on bf for a bit. That was the easy part to figure out, the hard part is waiting.

SwitchbladeMama
by Bronze Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 11:12 AM
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I'm not big on sex, but if a guy is worthy enough to make out with I usually know within the first 2 minutes of seeing him, and first 20 minutes of talking to him.


Heath77
by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 11:36 AM
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I know if I have chemistry with someone once I meet them. That doesn't mean I will sleep with them though. It just means I amattracted to them and the sex would be great I am sure, but that's it. That's why with on line dating I wont waste time texting and messaging because I am too busy and I need to meet someone in person to see if I am attracted to them And to see if there is chemistry. You can't tell anything from a pic on line and a text message or phone call.
faerie75
by Ruby Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 2:55 PM

 no its not true for me. because i really wasnt into my SO the first few dates. however, after 13 years of being single and thinking i knew instant attraction, i had started going on a few more dates to investigate later in the game. glad i did too :)

Frances0923
by Bronze Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 3:14 PM
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Yes you'll know. I knew I wanted to bang my currentl BF on the first date and 3 years later we are still good. 

cjsmom1
by Gold Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 1:51 AM

I've never heard that before. I may be physically attracted to someone but wait to make that decision until I know them a little better

RocknRoll.Rose
by Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 4:45 PM

It's never come up so I don't really know but I don't think it is something you can say like "Definitely by the 3rd date" or something like that. I think it just depends on how comfortable you feel with the person and whether you're in love or not. I don't really know. I'm not at all expeirenced in this area. I've never really had a date that got that far.

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SABRINA_29
by New Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 4:58 PM
Its not the same with every guy. My So and I did within days of knowing each other and we've been together for two years now engaged for one year.
Jenn8604
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 5:59 PM
For me with the sperm donor we were friends for over a month. Then we started dating. I knew I cared for him while we were just friends and I was hoping to date him, not for just sex tho, I only have sex with someone I care for, so I knew it would happen eventually. After we were dating when it came to it we just both knew we were ready for it.
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Infinitex3
by New Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 7:05 PM

I know pretty quickly. Doesn't mean it'll actually happen, but the thought of having sex with them will definitely be there.

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