WHO AM I TRULY DEALING WITH? (UNBORN DAUGHTER'S FATHER)
Hello all! A few months ago I made a post about being confused about my then relationship and unborn child. I have since decided to parent and and am currently 25 weeks along with my first (a girl). I also ended the relationship with my daughter's father (great decision) and had gone a whole month without speaking to or seeing him until he saw me in traffic and followed me into the store 3 weeks ago. He asked about his daughter, but was mainly concerned about me having another man.
I attend parenting classes on Thursdays and lately he has been showing up. He has even showed up to my house unannounced to see if I am "alright". He has been claiming that he wants a future with me, loves me, and will be there for me and our daughter. I completely have trouble believing him because of his extensive history of lying, but have wanted to believe him because I still care for him. However, he admitted that he moved back in with his ex (has been evicted twice in last 4 months) because he said he had no other place to go. Initially, when he started coming back around we were not communicating at all, but gradually began to text and talk on occasion. With each passing day knowing that he is living with his "ex" while I am pregnant and claiming that he still wants me, I have become very angry. She also knows nothing about me or our baby and I don't want anything to do with him apart from taking care of our baby at this point. But, I feel like he is playing a dangerous game that I want no part of once she does find out. I know that he is deceiving her and me, but don't understand how he could be so cruel. He also hasn't told his kids about the baby, claiming that he wants to wait until he gets another place. How should I deal with this situation?
ANY ADVICE, ANYONE?