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I've just become a single mom at 14 weeks.

Posted by on May. 3, 2014 at 5:22 AM
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My fiancĂ© and I discovered that we were expecting on valentines day. We were both very excited about having a baby together and he was so ready to be a dad. Then two days ago he was hit by an eighteen wheeler and killed instantly. I'm going to be honest, I'm a wreck. I can barely eat, I can't sleep, and all I do is cry in my free time. The funeral is in a few hours and all I can think about is how I want this to be a sick joke that I would totally forgive him for. But I know it isn't. We were going to get married in three weeks. I don't understand why he was taken from me. I feel awful. How do I cope? 

by on May. 3, 2014 at 5:22 AM
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Silver Member on May. 3, 2014 at 5:23 AM
Writing crying walking praying
Kellyannheath
by on May. 3, 2014 at 5:27 AM


Quoting mommy_2_be_2010: Writing crying walking praying

Walking seems to help a little bit. 

mommy_2_be_2010
by Silver Member on May. 3, 2014 at 5:34 AM
Writing helps too I can promise you that pick up a pen and paper write him a letter and read it at the funeral

Quoting Kellyannheath:

Quoting mommy_2_be_2010: Writing crying walking praying

Walking seems to help a little bit. 

LifeCafe42
by Nora on May. 4, 2014 at 10:03 PM
Hugs in so sorry for your loss please get counseling now it will be very hard but your little one needs you
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faerie75
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2014 at 11:47 PM
Omg I am so sorry :( take it one day at a time is all I have. Reach out for help and support.
superdivamom727
by Bronze Member on May. 5, 2014 at 1:47 AM
***hugz**** you and your baby and family are in my prayers !!!!
cjsmom1
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2014 at 6:35 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Utilize your support system (family and friends) during these times

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