Does any of you ladies, still live together with their Ex-husband/ partner?
I consider myself " Married but living as a single mom" I will like to know how you guys make it work and do activities with the kids etc ?
My man is not in this marriage at all but just wanted kids and decieved me that he wanted a family life. We have two kids 3 yrs old and 1.3 years, i worry about divorce because i am still on maternity leave without any income, plus my kids are too small and their father can't care for their basic needs properly and he also work out of town often, leaving me with the kids 85% of the time to care for them.
He told me he doesnt have any love for me and will never do. I got so hurt by those words considering he has erection problem and cant last for 3 minutes durihng sex and i still stayed without cheating on him. He never want to do things together like a family, we speak only few words with each others and the last sex we had was since i concieved my second child .
I know i have to get a job to be finacially independent but this i can only do in september when my second child starts day care. i just need advice on how to live together for the kids sake until i get a job and a stable relationship and for my kids to get little older before divorcing him. I realised after those painful words that i have to move on because his not willing to work on this narriage as he prefer to live as a single parent.