Hello all, I am a 32 year old sinlge mom to my 9 year old son. He is my world. He is very inquisitive and loves to asks questions about everything. His dad is kind of in his life. Seems he likes to take his son when it is convenient. I have never had issues with child support as he has most of the time paid it on time with no battle about it. I just wish he would spend more quality time with this son. I cannot change that and have a hard time accepting how this has turned out. I would give anything for my son to have a great dad in his life. My son is the one that will suffer and I am the one that is here for him to lean on support him. I find it gets harder as my son gets older and is starting to form his own opinion regarding his dad. His dad is also in a serious relationship that harbors 2 kids from his girlfriend (he is not the father). I just hate that the other kids (who are not his) get to spend all their time with my sons dad and he is so "ho hum" about it. Anyway, my rant could go on forever. How do others deal with this? I know I just need to let it go. It just hurts me to see my son struggle to have a relationship with his dad. Thanks for listening all.