finally divorcing and daughter tells her friend her dad touched her
I finally started divorce proceedings. My daughter told her friend and confided her dad molested her. It happened once she said but has always complained that he touches her bottom and she hates it. It explains so much. Once at a physical she was covering up so much the pediatrician asked if she had been touched. I said no at the time. Husband was emotionally and physically abusive. Outside world thought he was great. Kids don't want to see him. He is on supervised visits. He is saying he didn't do it or hit me of course. He has a lot of money and hid it all. He claims he can't work now as he has recovered from skin cancer of which I helped him through. He is trying for full or joint custody. No arrest because my daughter said it could have been a dream but went on to say that it was real cause she remembered feeling his hand on her. She cries and asks why he did this to her. I support her and tell her all the time. We left the house and he refuses to leave to let us back in. Living at my mom's away from their friends and school, activities. Dealing with all this, four kids including dd who is 11. It is too much to take. Trying to be strong. He is fighting hard with lawyer saying I put my dd up to this. Horrible if she finds out. He is saying all is my fault and I am ailienating and brainwashing kids. Awful nightmare. Now I have to face him next week at a case conference. Has anyone gone through similar situation?