Ok, I'm at a loss. I want to email BD about something he did, but part of me is just so frustrated with all his crap I don't really want to waste my breath. But the other part wants to email him about it because it goes against the CO, he shouldn't have done it (as usual) and its one more thing I can add to my very long list for our court date at the end of Aug.
Back story in-case you haven't seen some of my past posts... He put a false restraining order on me for "abusing" DS. He constantly goes against the CO and I have to constantly get our Parenting Coordinator (PC) involved because of things that he does/doesn't do. He refuses to co-parent with me and currently we do 50/50 week off week on, but because of his job (pilot) he can rarely ever take his time.
Since the major events happened just a couple months ago, DS now has to see a psychologist because during the 3 weeks i couldn't have him (due to the restraining order) he got suspended from school 4TIMES! It's a mess, I feel so bad for DS.
Here's what happened....
BD called to talk to DS as he usually does a couple times a week. no big deal. We were really busy yesterday and the only free time we had was the car ride from my sisters house to my friends house who was helping me make DS's cake for today (his bday party). So I gave him the phone in the car to talk to BD. No it's not on speaker phone and honestly I usually tune him out because I know his rights and I could care less about what they talk about.
But I catch the last part of the convo because it stuck out to me DS says to BD
"ok, I'll ask her tomorrow..."
"oh, ok... I'll ask her today."
I was curious, but I wasn't going to say anything because its not my place.
Well, DS hangs up the phone and says to me
"Dad wants me to ask you if you can send him the video of me riding the sheep."
Now, I know most would think this is no big deal but you don't know my ex. A normal person, if they just really wanted to see it/ have it because it's their DS and thought it was cool, would have just sent an email and asked.... So it goes against the CO anyways because he's not supposed to put DS in the middle and have him ask things from me. I know he has an alterior motive, DS rode the sheep last week anyways, and to be honest it's none of his business what we did, where we did.
I don't ever ask BD for photos or videos of DS when they take him skiing, or on the boat, or when he goes surfing in Cali....
So, the more that I'm reading what I'm writing I think I sound stupid. But then again I know BD and how he is. It could also be these stupid pregnancy hormones. (last night I really wanted to throw something for no reasonlol... ah the joys of being prego).
So should I send an email just stating that it was innapropriate to use DS to pass along a message? if so what should it say (I cant think of a nice professional way to put again, again hormones).