Been dating a guy for almost a year. Things have been great. The last two months I noticed he hardly spends the night. I asked him about it today. He stated he was a bit uncomfortable being at my place. Reason? He doesn't appreciate my four year old being a tyrant but it's none of his business. Do he just chooses to not come over. My son is not a saint but he isn't a misbehaved child. This is a boy who is used to having mom all to himself, gets no attention from his dad and wants attention from bf. When bf comes over he does get overly excited and I swear bring out all his toys and wants to talk every five minutes. It doesn't bother me. He is excited. I told bf that was a deal breaker. His son isn't a saint, but it's not my place to comment. He thinks I need to be more stern with him. I think I am. One problem is son's father isn't very consistent in his life. Comes and goes. And last few months this I think has affected him. He has my best friend and brother as a male role model. But the in and out of his dad, that's another issue. I don't think I can deal w/a bf who is uncomfortable around my child. This is the second time my child has come up in this matter, he doesn't want my walk to walk all over me. I didn't agree the first time. Don't agree now.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 20, 2014 at 3:19 AM