I have been single for almost 5 months and found someone that I never expected to want to be in a relationship with. I am a single mom to my 2 1/2 year old dd and am terrified of letting this go past the I really like you stage. He's my best friends brother and a amazing man and likes me just about as much as I like him. We have gone out a few times and the last time he took me to a Andy Grammer concert and it was amazing and when the night was over he kissed me. It was as awkward as a first kiss could get because he completely took me off guard but omg I couldn't stop shaking for a little while after that. There is a crap load of chemistry between us but I am terrified of being with anyone. I know I need to get over this but I can't help but be scared. My ex husband was abusive and controlling and dd's father was a man child who broke me in more then one way. I feel like damaged goods most of the time but when I am with him I actually feel semi normal. Any suggestions to help me not be so terrified?