I'm not involved with anyone, but when I read about couples here on CM or listen to some of my friends, it got me wondering.
How much are you willing to compromise for a partner? And by this, I mean mostly small things like how you decorate your home, the things you do for hobbies, etc.
I admit I have a bit of a chip on my shoulder when it comes to certain things. I was married to a tool who had issues with my posters (movie posters, artwork I did, etc) and constantly ragged on me about how childish and stupid they were. I couldn't understand his issue with them because they were framed and it wasn't like I had posters of muscle men all over, LOL. He also had a weird issue with my hobbies because he felt I should spend every waking moment with him. Wanting a half hour to myself to write or draw meant I didn't love him, want to spend time with him, etc. When guilt didn't work, he'd either accuse me of writing about him or say my stories were stupid and pointless and a waste of time (he actually deleted several through the years).
I've been divorced and single for 7 yrs. I enjoy my hobbies and decorate as I please. I've only had one or two guys have an issue with my bedroom decor or my hobbies. It made me realize that these were some things I'd refuse to compromise on, no matter how petty they seem. Call it a major personality flaw.
So how much are/were you willing to compromise on? Or are you like me and reached the point of "fuck you, this is me"?