I don't hate anyone but I swear my kids father is on the verge of changing that. Our court order says that he has to have both our children covered by his health insurance. Well Monday I went to pick up a prescription for my daughter only to find out that her insurance through him is inactive. So of course I was pissed. I sent him a text and called and left a message and he didn't respond to either. So I had to end up calling his job. He told me he'd take care of it. That didn't happen Monday or yesterday. So today I sent him a text asking if he had straightened things out and he said he'd do it today. He also said he'd need my daughter's SS #.
He didn't need it before so I asked him why he needs it now. He said he needs it so adding her back can be done faster. Prior to that he said "if you don't need me to fix this just let me know". I guess that was his way of telling me to not question why he needs her SS # and to just give it to him. NOT! This man doesn't see his kids nor speak to them so giving him an important piece of information like that didn't sit right with me. So I called the benefits department at his job and asked the woman I spoke to if I needed to give him her SS #. She asked for his name and my children's names. I told her and she said my son's insurance is active but my daughter isn't even on there and hasn't been all year. She said he doesn't need her social and that she would contact the insurance company herself and have them reactivate her insurance. I have to call her back later to make sure everything was handled.
I'm so glad I called before giving up that information to him. I love my kids to death but I wish I had picked a better man to have them with. I don't have to deal with him often but when I do, it's always a bad experience because he's such an asshole. I believe he knew that she wasn't on his insurance. He just didn't give a damn which is why he failed to tell me. Vent over!