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Anonymous
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Ok so I have gone against the court order twice regarding my sons visits with his dad. His dad and I both agreed on allowing extra times and both times his father brought him back 3-4 hrs late, didn't call, so I called him no answer, and then when I called agian he had his phone shut off. Since these incidents I told my sons father from now on we are following the court order, he got mad but he has given me no choice, opinions? 

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:34 PM
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Nisha929
by Bronze Member on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:44 PM

Did you specify the amount of extra time?  

virginiamama71
by Carrie on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:49 PM

 how much extra time?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:50 PM

Nisha I already specified that in the post we agreed on times for return, and he returned them 3-4 hrs late. 

Quoting Nisha929:

Did you specify the amount of extra time?  


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:51 PM

We AGREED on times, both of us. 

Quoting virginiamama71:

 how much extra time?


Nisha929
by Bronze Member on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:54 PM
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Did you give him an exact time as to when your son should be back or did you all just agree that he could have extra time? 

Quoting Anonymous:

Nisha I already specified that in the post we agreed on times for return, and he returned them 3-4 hrs late. 

Quoting Nisha929:

Did you specify the amount of extra time?  

 

 

virginiamama71
by Carrie on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:56 PM

 Maybe they were busy when you called so he did not want to answer and wanted to continue enjoying the time with the children.

 

Quoting Anonymous:

We AGREED on times, both of us. 

Quoting virginiamama71:

 how much extra time?

 

 

Frances0923
by Bronze Member on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:56 PM

What do you need an opinion of? Your ex mad.. so what? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:58 PM

We agreed on the extra time, and what time to have our son back. 

Quoting Nisha929:

Did you give him an exact time as to when your son should be back or did you all just agree that he could have extra time? 

Quoting Anonymous:

Nisha I already specified that in the post we agreed on times for return, and he returned them 3-4 hrs late. 

Quoting Nisha929:

Did you specify the amount of extra time?  


 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 14, 2014 at 1:00 PM

I called when he was already almost 2 hours late, he could have at least given me a courtesy call. If we agree on extra time, and what time I expect to stick to the agreement and he pulled this twice. 

Quoting virginiamama71:

 Maybe they were busy when you called so he did not want to answer and wanted to continue enjoying the time with the children.

 

Quoting Anonymous:

We AGREED on times, both of us. 

Quoting virginiamama71:

 how much extra time?




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 14, 2014 at 1:00 PM

If I am being unfair on going back to following the court order. 

Quoting Frances0923:

What do you need an opinion of? Your ex mad.. so what? 


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