Ok...he cannot manage to live on his own without help from his (or MY) mommy, he smokes weed daily and we've been split for a year and a half (we never made it down the aisle. When we split I told him he needed to proove he could live on his own for a year. He screwed that up in a month by bouncing a check to me. To this day he's not made it a month completely on his own. And I asked him to quit smoking weed, which he's never gonna do. He's now part of a canibis club for cryin' out loud! Just because it's cheaper doesn't make it ok.
Oh yeah, and then there's that whole LOVE thing?! Where I don't love him and can't see how he can possibly love me anymore!
Apparently they're under the impression that he still has it in his mind that we have a chance to get back together. That's why they think I should tell him. To me, that's like asking permission. I mean, what's he going to say to that?