Okay, I just noticed the question of the week, but I don't think she really asked this question. Are you okay having sex (casual or early in a relationship) while being a single mother. I'm (almost) 24, have an 11 month old, HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN A YEAR!!!!!!!!! It's killing me! Anyways, this is kind of the way I look at things. I'm young, I'm not rich by any means, I'm not on BC (which if I decided to have sex I definitely would get on), and I'm scared to death I'll get pregnant if I have sex. I can't even fathom being a single mom of TWO! I have one and I can handle him, but I really want to get married and have a family. I don't want to end up with 2 baby's daddies and i feel it would completely unfair to Landon (my son) if I got pregnant again! Financially speaking, I'm good right now, but there's no way in hell I could afford another pregnancy! I don't have insurance, so I'd have to have assistance if I got pregnant. Anyways, I'm really really ready to have sex again, it's been sooooooooo long! And most of my friends say just get on birth control and find a "friend"! I'm emotional and I think that would be difficult for me even though I've had them in the past. Now that I really want a family and a husband.....anyways I'm too emotional! Okay, this is getting long.....I just want to know what everyone else thinks about this. Are you okay with having sex and taking the risk of getting pregnant again? (No judgement will come from me!!!) A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do!
on Mar. 16, 2008 at 10:09 PM