A lady in another group recommended that that was a good online group and they took the money out of my acocunt (it was suggested to try the sites that people pay on so that you get a more "serious" crowd) Yet they will not let you e-mail, or read your messages until your account is active. But you don't seem to ever go active. They just take your money. When I posted in my profile that I was not able to respond to the messages until they let me go active "THEY" censored it, erased it, and rewrote I will respond when I can been busy along those lines(paraphrased) Has anyone ever done this or know anything about it? I don't even really date and so on a whim I did this and then here's my experience. Anyone?