but anyway im rambling well i finally went down to family court to fill out my petitions for custody as well as child support. in the past he has threatened so many thing about having her taken away from me, about custody, not paying, quitting his job,that he will get a good lawyer since i can't afford one, make my mom lose her house, and so on. it makes actually taking the step to do this so scary. i hate that he still has that kind of control.
i was just courious how many of you are going through similiar situations and how many of your BDs actually behaved this way and if they lashed out liek that once you finally went to court.