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Hey, I've been really down recently. The father of my baby is Jehoviah's Witness and I love him to death. We have been on and off for 2 years now. He knows the baby is his, but denies it to everyone else inculding his friends and family. He can be such a great guy, but I can't be always put last in someone's life. He would hang out with everyone else and if he got time for me, then he would "squeeze" me in. And if you truely love someone you want to spend all your time with them that you can right? Not try to squeeze them in and if you can't get to it then it's okay. Am I over reacting? I don't know. I think I don't want her growing up Jehoviah's Witness and me Christian because that will just confuse her to death. I can't tell my daughter that Santa Claus is coming and her dad say he's not. I've told him to stay out of her life and I won't ask for money. I think it's better this way am I right? I miss him and it's really hard for me to deal with this alone. I need some advice bad. She doesn't need a dad that won't tell anyone that he's her dad right? Please help! Thanks.