First I'd like to introduce myself I am a single mom to my 9 month old son christopher. I live in san diego, I am a full time real estate consultant. I also run on a weekly basis. (I just started that) cuse im still overweight from my pregnancy. Is it just me or does your body completely fall apart after you give birth? What the f(&#@! NO ONE TOLD ME THAT!! Everyone said it would be painful but no one said how hard it was going to be to remotely look the way i used to. I'm so jealous of some of my girlfriends who have great bodies like 6 weeks after they give birth. wtf? well please let me know if this sounds familiar to any of you. Maybe i was just too naive to know any better. Maybe we can motivate each other to go on a diet or keep up one that you already have. Thanks everyone. and please any advise to a new mom is very much appreciated.. thank you.