I am so frustrated! My ex has our daughter this weekend.... So, he takes her shopping yesterday for some new clothes because she has had a recent growth spurt, and he claims he had nothing at his house that fit her. He brings her by yesterday afternoon so she can show me what they bought together. I was shocked! Most of the stuff he bought her is stuff that a 12, 13, 14 yr old girl might be wearing, and she's only 4 1/2!!!! Lately, here at my house, she has been wanting to wear a lot of little 'girly-girl' dresses, which I think is just fine, because they're sweet. And I also want to make sure that she is dressed appropriate for her age, not in short denim skirts and wedge sandals! Her dad tells me that he doesn't like the clothes I buy her, that he wants her to be dressed 'stylish'. Well I think that most of what he bought her is for girls that are much older, and I told him so. I had even told him that I had some clothes here that he could take to his place & keep there for her because they still fit....and he REFUSED them!!! He claims that he can't afford to pay his child support, and yet he can go out & spend $$ just to have a 4 yr old 'dressed stylish'?? UGH!!!!
on Aug. 5, 2007 at 4:51 PM