The Whole Story.....added to My Ex's Wife.....Please Read
My name is Erin, I'm a 25 single mommy of twin two year old boys. This is my story and it is the as detailed as I can get it (while ranting) and adds to the "My EX's New Wife" that I posted last week. Please read and help me figure out what to do????
My ex-husband, Ronnie, left me when they were only two weeks old for another woman, Tasha, who happened to just turn 18, and hasn't had a thing to do with them in over 2 years.
Monday, he called for the first time in 2 years. When I asked him what he wanted he said "I don't know". Now you have to understand that this little 18 year old not only thinks he "hung the moon", but that she's going to be my children's new "mommy". She can't have any kids of her own.....from what I hear they have been trying to get pregnant, but she has miscarriages (karma??) She knew we were married and had two babies on the way.....and still slept with my husband anyway before the kids were born. I have chalked it up to they not only deserve eachother but they're going to get what they deserve in the end.
I told him that I was no longer an angry ex-wife but an angry mommy. We haven't so much as heard a peep from him, no child support, nothing. I told him the boys were fine and happy and they didn't need to hear from his stupid butt. I told him he was nothing more than a deadbeat screwup and he needed to leave us alone. His reply was that he wanted to see the boys and take them from me. I know that he can't do that, so I just laughed at him. I told him to expect a restraining order and a court order to stay away from them until they were 18 years old.
He gets to live anyway he wants, do whatever he pleases and get away with absolute murder. Everyone that hears about my situation says to take him back to court and get my child support. But they don't rely on his money or him for a thing. It's always been me. I know there are alot of other single moms in this world dealing with the same bs. But this is borderline ridiculous. I forgave him for what he did to me.....but I can't for what he did to the boys.
The thing that gets me is that his wife gets on the phone and cusses me out. If I were her I wouldn't want to even be in the middle of it. I wouldn't want to piss off the "ex wife" for the sake of my husband, ya know??? Given the fact that she's only 20, I guess I have to chalk that up to immaturity. I haven't so much as seen this woman in person and she's going to sit there and cuss me out for taking care of my children and not bothering a soul.
I just want him to go away. I hope he regrets hurting the boys. One day this will all come back to bite him on his hind end. Why can't he understand that I just want him to stay gone????