OK i need some advise or opinions. Im a little confused so i had my son 3 1/2 months ago. Dad started coming around but not till recently. He never signed anything at the hospital. So he said he wanted a paternity test which is fine with me. So we went together and did that. We hang out here and there and he visits his son at my house. The test has not came back yet but should here real soon . Well here is what i am confused on he says comments like thats my boy, my baby, etc. Why say it or do the paternity if you are unsure? I am guessing to be sure. Now here is my problem i filed for child support and it is in the process but he has given our baby NOTHING. No diapers, wipes, a outfit, etc. No money to help out and it makes me so mad. I do everything and he makes 5 times more money than me. It just irriates me but i dont know how to say anything. I have hinted and hinted i told him he should start writing me checks and keep track and they will deduct it. He is just not getting it. So he comes over last night and stays, helps with our son, gets up with him, etc. Which i am grateful for but he was in and out of our sone room and seen everything i have purchased and never offers anything. Then he said well i gotta leave by 1 cause the bank closes im thinking good go get me some money but i couldn't say it. Dad's father [grandpa] lives 10 minutes away and does not see him that much but he has never gotten him anything either. Dads mom [grandma] has never seen or called she lives far in Florida but still she has a phone. My parents this is their 4th granchild between me and my sister and my mom is always picking something up for him. I guess i just shouldn't be materialistic i just don't understand it. These are his grandparents. So should i just wait on the support or say someting and how i have hinted but that is not working. Any advise????