With the holidays coming up I dont know what to do. DS's dad is semi-involved in his life. When I say semi what I mean is he has seen him twice (he's 6 months old) and calls once every couple of weeks to check in. He pays child support since it is now court ordered. One of the last times we talked he mentioned wanting to take him for a week over the Thanksgiving holiday. My first thought is "Over my dead body". I really dont trust my son alone with him. Not that he would hurt him on purpose but nothing comes before BF, not even his son, so if he happens to get neglected in the process he doesnt really care. SO my question is how do you handle holidays in your family? I was kinda thinking maybe a day visit with me in the area (we live 6 hours from him) but I just dont know.