Ok I'm currently going through a divorce right now with my children's spermdonor. WE pretty much have everything settled except for the child support payments. The big issue is that he is trying to find every deduction he can to take away from child support. He's taken out travel expenses and a whole bunch of other stuff. Can he do this. I mean what if he doesnt travel to see them. And this year and next he will be in Iraq. He's an E4 stationed At Fort Stewart. Now we are fighting about the kids being beneficiaries on his life insurance policy and wants to take out another $29 to put them in there. Do you guys have any suggestions on what to do. If I should fight to get them on the life insurance without him taking away that $29 extra. I feel deductions shouldn't bee taken out. What do you guys think??