About 7-10 years ago we moved in with hubbys dad because his wife died. We got him settled and moved out.
Well now his health is failing and we moved back in last August. Now, since January he has been in and out of the hospital and rehab. When he was home he could NOT be left alone and hubby and I were left to stay with him. To a point this was okay. But when we asked someone to come over and watch FIL no one would. As of this evening he is coming home. I was told and promised that everyone would be here to help. Then I was told that at least 2-3 out of 6 of them are going out of town. WTF???? I now have a job and no one to watch FIL. I warned them and they have yet to do something. I will not give up my job and kids to tend to him anymore. HE IS NOT MY FATHER.
The bad part is I blame FIL for getting sick and basically on his way to dying, even though it is not his fault.
I'm mad at In-laws for not helping and I really hate my hubby.
Again it is not FIL's fault and not hubbys fault. Im just mad at the situation and don't know what to do. I think they only think about themselves and could care less about father. They are waiting for the money.
For the lost one 4/2003
im so sorry you going threw that! hugs! have you guys talk about getting a CNA to help?
is there no nurse or hospice care?
you are right in feeling overwhelmed.
Situations as(ALL BETS ARE OFF) situations!!! Old lady....hell* we must all learn to control our CRAZY and she been her long before i was born!!! She knows exactly what she's saying :-! Am i wrong????
THIS x 100!!!!
Quoting KrissyKC:
use the money they r waiting for and hire help.
Need Advice kinda long story
- 5crayons
on Jun. 21, 2012 at 2:27 PM