i kinda flipped my shit...(will be long sorry)
I know no one will comment or probably read this since this group seems to have gone dead but i need to get this off my chest. My MIL called the other day to ask my DH if he got her text about his step gpa dying. He said yes. She continued to talk to him about it so he went outside. I was fixing stuff inside so I couldn't go outside yet, but when I did he's asking her where the funeral home is & if she'd get him directions to the cemetery. UM Hello?! I know where this place is & the funeral home site gives u directions to the cemetery. He had no reason to ask his mom except to play baby boy & mommy will u do it for me. Yes I know i was slightly jealous b/c as many of u may remember we've had so many issues w/ the MIL that i've written her off. I though DH had supported me but the 1st time she calls he's back to playing her game. Never once did he ask about her behavior at Izzys party, he said it never crossed his mind. WOW,really? THis women disrespects me, him & is rude to everyone of MY friends & family & he just forgot about it?! Some of u may be saying i'm insensitive b/c someone had died. Well i'm not, noone in his family has had anything to do with man in 5-6 years so theres no mourning going on. I told him i was upset that he never once even thought about it b/c thats what his family does w/ her they forget her bad behavior so she thinks she can continue. In the entire 20 min conversation never once did she even ask about her grandkids, that she hasn't seen in 3 months. This women takes the cake & i'm afraid she's going to take my husband too. He ignores her as long as she ignores us but as soon as she calls, he jumps right into her lap forgetting all the wrong she has done. I've tried to talk about it but this pregnancy has got my hormones all crazy so all i do is cry so he told me that i'm the drama queen & i cause all the problems & he doesn't want me @ the funeral b/c I'll start a scene!! I asked him when did i ever cause a scene in public? NEVER its always his mother showing her ass, but b/c i'm upset now its all my fault. Yes i know that i should've just ignored it but its so hard to understand why that wasn't on his mind when she called. oh well thanks for reading & any words of encouragement!