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Posted by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:58 PM
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Dress up in the bedroom?

Role play?

Use handcuffs, tape, ect?

What is your hubby's fave part of your body?

Do you mind that it is the fave part?

 

baby

Michelle

by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:58 PM
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hanna06
by Group Admin on Jun. 3, 2010 at 11:35 PM
Well well...... Um sometimes I will pull out the sexy nightie stuff, sometimes a t- shirt and undies do it all lol. Um we are not the kind to use the tape/toys or what not in the bed room , so no is the answer there. Hmm as far as his fav part, I never really asked dh, but the way he goes poastal if he can have alone time I would say all of me ? Um sometimes his over postal ways are not cool with me, but we're working on it. I swear my dh acts like a baby who's toy was taken away when it comes down to sex or no sex.
jbishop928
by Group Admin on Jun. 3, 2010 at 11:42 PM

We don't do any of that. I'm SO self-conscience and so worried he's not going to like something so I don't like to try anything new! In fact, we had those dice and coupons and a book I got for my bacholette party and he made me mad one night and I threw them ALL away!!!!!!! hahaha I swore he wasn't ever getting any again!! LOL.(which ended up being NOT true) All I have to say is.......PLEASE MIRENA DO NOT FAIL ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Connor....go to bed early this weekend :D

hanna06
by Group Admin on Jun. 3, 2010 at 11:49 PM

Quoting jbishop928:

We don't do any of that. I'm SO self-conscience and so worried he's not going to like something so I don't like to try anything new! In fact, we had those dice and coupons and a book I got for my bacholette party and he made me mad one night and I threw them ALL away!!!!!!! hahaha I swore he wasn't ever getting any again!! LOL.(which ended up being NOT true) All I have to say is.......PLEASE MIRENA DO NOT FAIL ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Connor....go to bed early this weekend :D


Ha ha ha , we had those green glow in the dark dice before the kids, the flavor lube stuff and the coupon books, none of it was used . I am with you I feel like change for me and dh is not a good thing. He would love to act as if we were in a adult movie, but I am WAY to shy.
*Christina*
SophieLee
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:11 AM

Let's see... I don't dress up.. it is pointless Randy likes me naked... that is about it.

Role play.. as i said in the other post that never goes too well.. usually ends in a lot of laughter..

We used to have bondage tape but that was a little weird... If you look at my spam of my house and look at my bed... now think REALLY hard.. why did I buy THAT bed? I made the sales lady blush is all I am gonna say...

He really likes my boobs.. he likes me to touch them blah blah... Do i care.. nope, I would rather his fave place be down lower if you know what I mean... But if i ask I will get so that is all that matters...

And why are you two so shy? They married you for you not your dress size or any of that.. You have to feel good about you before anyone else will... Have you seen the show.. How to Look Good Naked... if not look it up.. watch one or two and see what I am talking about. There is nothing to be ashamed of... And the more confidient you are the more he wants you... Trust me on that one... Confeiendce is more sexy then an sixe 4 in a VS bikni any day!

hanna06
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:18 AM

Quoting SophieLee:

Let's see... I don't dress up.. it is pointless Randy likes me naked... that is about it.

Role play.. as i said in the other post that never goes too well.. usually ends in a lot of laughter..

We used to have bondage tape but that was a little weird... If you look at my spam of my house and look at my bed... now think REALLY hard.. why did I buy THAT bed? I made the sales lady blush is all I am gonna say...

He really likes my boobs.. he likes me to touch them blah blah... Do i care.. nope, I would rather his fave place be down lower if you know what I mean... But if i ask I will get so that is all that matters...

And why are you two so shy? They married you for you not your dress size or any of that.. You have to feel good about you before anyone else will... Have you seen the show.. How to Look Good Naked... if not look it up.. watch one or two and see what I am talking about. There is nothing to be ashamed of... And the more confidient you are the more he wants you... Trust me on that one... Confeiendce is more sexy then an sixe 4 in a VS bikni any day!


lmao you about made me laugh out loud and wake the baby up on that last line. Um for me I was raised to be shy on the sex stuff. My grandma raised me and she always taught me that sex was dirty. I learned this young because my dad was living there to and left a playboy mag in the bathroom for me to find. Another reason is dh has had a porn issue and I feel like I am nothing to compare to those girls. He says he like me just how I am, and the way he chases me around the house I know its true. I have seen the show and it was starting to help, until it took us a year to turn back on the cable, which just had to get turned off when the show got started. So I am still trying to crawl outta my shell, but I think I will aways be more reserved.
*Christina*
SophieLee
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:32 AM

Reserved is fine but low self esteeme is not... Strut your stuff honey!!! And if he is chasing your ass around i wouldn't worry about porn...  The best thing for self esteem is a new hair cut or a pedi or mani... something like that.. something that feels good all over and then it shows when you walk... I always feel so great after a pedi (I can't do mani's I work in food) I strut like a peacock with my toes all pretty...

And you are something compared to them.. you are real.. not plastic, air brushed, tinited, highlighted or any of that bullshit that a computerscreen shows or playboy. And the screen can't touch feel or be a wife... You are teh wife... you are the central uint to the family... And the central booty giver outter too... If he wants your booty he better pay attention to it!!! And when he says how pretty you are.. don't schoff at him.. say thank you sir may i have another! Be proud that you make your husabnd want you deisre you. That is a lot! Love it up!

*steps off soap box*

 

SophieLee
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:39 AM

*steps back on soap box brefily*

And always believe them when they say you are pretty. You say no I am not enough times they will believe you and stop saying it. Do you need him to say it? Nope, but it sure does feel good when they do! It is nice when they notice it. And make sure you notice too.. men are simple... an easy way to say nice things is stroke their ego.. like opening a jar... How strong he is blah blha... sometimes you gotta spoon feed them too! LOL

And always ALWAYS ALWAYS Dress like you mean it... None of this I just put on sweat pants cause i don't feel like getting dressed... That is the worst thing ever! Figure out what works for you, what makes you FEEL good and LOOK good.. For me, It is squarenecked tops.... I look good, they make me look less fat and I feel good in it, knowing that my shit ain't hanging out for the world to see...  And I know that I can't wear the "in" clothes... Like the skinny jeans... I would look totally stupid in them...And randy thinks they make women look like walking ice cream cones... LOL Come on pciture it.. you know you can.. LOL Anyway, I wear boot cut jeans that fit... not too big and not the kind where you have to suck it all in to Zip it... That is the key to feeling good too.. Never have "skiiny" jeans.. that just makes you feel like shit at the end of the day.  Okay, I think I am done now...

*puts soap box away again* 

hanna06
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:42 AM

Quoting SophieLee:

Reserved is fine but low self esteeme is not... Strut your stuff honey!!! And if he is chasing your ass around i wouldn't worry about porn...  The best thing for self esteem is a new hair cut or a pedi or mani... something like that.. something that feels good all over and then it shows when you walk... I always feel so great after a pedi (I can't do mani's I work in food) I strut like a peacock with my toes all pretty...

And you are something compared to them.. you are real.. not plastic, air brushed, tinited, highlighted or any of that bullshit that a computerscreen shows or playboy. And the screen can't touch feel or be a wife... You are teh wife... you are the central uint to the family... And the central booty giver outter too... If he wants your booty he better pay attention to it!!! And when he says how pretty you are.. don't schoff at him.. say thank you sir may i have another! Be proud that you make your husabnd want you deisre you. That is a lot! Love it up!

*steps off soap box*

 


Once again you made me want to lol with your wording. But also at the same time I wanted to reach through the screen if i could've a hug you. You had tears in my eyes. I have been waitng it feels like so long for someone to say something to that effect to me. I have posted in other groups about him and the porn, and got nothing but hate, and other moms saying : who gives a shit, let him watch porn, it's no big deal etc...... and I needed more of the answer you just gave. So thank you. I have been along with my diet post, thinking of doing something with my hair when extra money comes my way. My hair is over half way down my back and , yet because of the baby it's always in a clip thingy. I hear you on the new look, new attitude acting, I get it too, even with a new outfit, or after putting on the make up that I so don't use often enough.
*Christina*
SophieLee
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 12:49 AM


Quoting hanna06:


Quoting SophieLee:

Reserved is fine but low self esteeme is not... Strut your stuff honey!!! And if he is chasing your ass around i wouldn't worry about porn...  The best thing for self esteem is a new hair cut or a pedi or mani... something like that.. something that feels good all over and then it shows when you walk... I always feel so great after a pedi (I can't do mani's I work in food) I strut like a peacock with my toes all pretty...

And you are something compared to them.. you are real.. not plastic, air brushed, tinited, highlighted or any of that bullshit that a computerscreen shows or playboy. And the screen can't touch feel or be a wife... You are teh wife... you are the central uint to the family... And the central booty giver outter too... If he wants your booty he better pay attention to it!!! And when he says how pretty you are.. don't schoff at him.. say thank you sir may i have another! Be proud that you make your husabnd want you deisre you. That is a lot! Love it up!

*steps off soap box*

 


Once again you made me want to lol with your wording. But also at the same time I wanted to reach through the screen if i could've a hug you. You had tears in my eyes. I have been waitng it feels like so long for someone to say something to that effect to me. I have posted in other groups about him and the porn, and got nothing but hate, and other moms saying : who gives a shit, let him watch porn, it's no big deal etc...... and I needed more of the answer you just gave. So thank you. I have been along with my diet post, thinking of doing something with my hair when extra money comes my way. My hair is over half way down my back and , yet because of the baby it's always in a clip thingy. I hear you on the new look, new attitude acting, I get it too, even with a new outfit, or after putting on the make up that I so don't use often enough.

Well eff them.. it is a big deal... I was married to one.. it sucks! The shitty thing was he didn't want me.. So I think you have a great shot at beating this thing... But it takes work on both ends. And hugs back to you as well honey, I feel this is a major problem with everyone at some point or another...  And everyone needs to feel good about them before others will feel good abuot them.  So do what you need to do and strut your stuff... Feel good about you..

And tomorrow.. i want you to try something new... trying just mentally saying that you are sexy at the mirror when you get up and brush your teeth.. see how that carries you through your day and let me know!

baby

Michelle

angelmom713
by Group Admin on Jun. 4, 2010 at 8:51 AM

Michelle,  Your words are AMAZING!!!!  You are a Rock Star, NO a GODDESS!!!!  Everything you said made ME want to reach thru my computer and hug you!!!!   Thank you so much for taking the time to post this!!!! 

And Hanna06 is SO right about so many mean moms in here.  I am SO happy I joined this group.  All of you mommies are just so supportive and loving and AMAZING!!!!   Youopen up and share and can discuss without being mean and rude. 

I am going out to get me something new tomorrow.  We don't have alot of money either, but I think even a new nail polish can make someone feel good!!!!  So tomorrow for me, its a box of hair color and a new bottle of nail polish and for less than $10 I will feel GREAT!!!

And my husband will SO thank you for that!!!!!

GET UP On that SOAPBOX MORE OFTEN!!!!

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