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scared and confused

Posted by on Jul. 21, 2011 at 1:44 PM
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so im a single mom of two just moved to texas and staying with some family members because we really dont have anywhere to go right now. I just got a job and they did not ask if I was pregnant and I did not tell them because I know that ppl dont usually hire you if your pregnant. Well I dont know when to tell them now cause I dont want to lose my much needed job and im already like 4 months...what should I do

 

Posted by on Jul. 21, 2011 at 1:44 PM
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hbeam27
by Member on Jul. 21, 2011 at 1:49 PM

You should be honest with them.  Tell them now that you are pregnant and if they fire you get an attorney because thats illegal!

SophieLee
by Group Admin on Jul. 21, 2011 at 1:52 PM

Hummm... I am not sure... Bump!

hlsnklsx2
by Group Admin on Jul. 21, 2011 at 4:59 PM

I COMPLETELY agree with this. It is illegal for them to fire you because you are pregnant. If they do fire you make sure you have all the facts written down and documented. I worked at Fashion Bug a few years ago and my boss was pissed because this girl came in looking for a job because she was fired from her previous job because she was pregnant. My boss told her the exact same thing. Don't be scared.

Quoting hbeam27:

You should be honest with them.  Tell them now that you are pregnant and if they fire you get an attorney because thats illegal!

 

ComotionGirl
by Group Owner on Jul. 21, 2011 at 8:08 PM

Don't be scared.  How long have you worked there.  Its illegal for them to ask you if you are pregnant.  Just like they cannot fire you because you are pregnant.  BUT they also don't have to give you your exact job after your maternity leave!  What do you do????

TnMm09
by New Member on Jul. 22, 2011 at 7:34 PM

I just started only been there for like 2 wks.Im a cashier at Lowes

TnMm09
by New Member on Jul. 22, 2011 at 7:35 PM

thank you guys I think I am going to say something Monday..Im off the next two days

 

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