I wanted to share that I used to work at a place with a lot of women in their mid-40's who were either unmarried with no kids divorced and childless. (Come to think of it most of the men there were older and didn't have kids either.) The organization wasn't openly anti-mom, but after getting pregnant, I realized that it subtly was because it was so hard for any of those women to relate to me as a newly pregnant woman. After my daughter was born, one of my colleagues even suggested that she could relate to my labor because she had once had a very painful kidney stone that she "delivered." Yup, you heard that right. She compared the birth of my baby to a kidney stone!!!
I no longer work there (for other reasons as well), and I'm now working at a much better place.
How about everyone else? Is your place of employment mom-friendly or just clueless?
I look forward to hearing everyone's experiences!