So i have a few questions??
Am i a bad mother and wife??
i have a over the top devoted husband and 3 girls. 19,16 and 7.
Now my husband and i both work we try to help eachother out as much as we can but lately it seems like we are both so run down, and seriously in need of some us time but can never find it.
I work 9 hrs, he works 14 hrs and by the time we get home cook dinner clean up and get the youngest hw done and bathed we are ready to pass out.
i sometimes feel like i never get ME time and he is alittle to mushy for me and sometimes complains about having to rush home to pick the lil one up from daycare and come home to dishes in the sink (16 yr old) and how he does them because its easier then making her.
I get so frustrated sometimes feeling like well ya know what i did today???? ill actually say to him do you want to make alist to see who did the most or who had the hardest day?
The main reason I ask if im a bad mother/wife is because lately I cannot wait for the bus to pick up my youngest so i can hurry up and go to work (early). its like a break for me ( i know its pathetic).
i guess im just in a rut and wondering if i am the only one who has ever felt this way. Anyone have any ideas?