I spend time with a lady about once a week. She doesn't drive, so I take her to doc appointments, take her to the grocery store, etc. She/her sister pay me $25 each time I spend time with her to help with gas and stuff. Normally it's fine because I usually just go pick her up after I get off work, which is at 2:30. The is having some outpatient treatments done three times a week for the next three weeks, and when I was scheduling the pick ups with her sister, she told me it would be 4:00. So that's what I had planned for. It's not super convenient, and it's a lot farther away than where I would normally pick her up at her house. Not to mention traffic will suck. So I get this message last night from her sister saying that she actually can't be picked up until 5:30. Ummmm we had talked about 4. I can almost go pick her up straight from work at 4. 5:30 doesn't work for me at all. And she didn't even ask if that would work, she just assumes that I sit around on these afternoons waiting for them to call me. And for $25, it's not even worth it. I have to leave my house by 4:30 at the very latest, sit in traffic, and then deal with whatever drama there is in the hospital. And then on top of that, she's expecting me to take G home and stay there with her! I'm getting ready to call her in a few minutes and tell her that I will make it work this week, but I can't do it next week. I can work with 4, 5:30 is dinner time, traffic time, take care of my own critters time.