Ok guys, I need some of your thoughts. I am going through some rough times right now (super personal) and am under an unusal amount of stress. My brother is having a baby tomorrow (scheduled) and I am working. The hospital is pretty far and on a Friday night there will be an insane amount of traffic. And I have 3 kids (9, 7, and 2) to take along. The relationship between my brother, his wife, and our family (my immediate family and our mom/dad) is very strained (a big history there). I let them know we would come on Saturday to see the baby.
So he flipped out on me today about this. He expects me to come the day they have the baby. I just don't understand why he got so upset. I really think he's very stressed about having another baby and taking it out on me. But really, does it matter to visit on the day the baby is born, or come the next day?
There is a lot of back-story here and I don't want to bore you to tears, but even ignoring all of that, what are your thoughts?