Alright ladies here it is.....I have had problems in the past with my SO getting/wanting attention from other women. In the past I have found text messages and facebook messages from him and other women being flirty and unneccessary talk from a man in a relationship. I got a weird feeling last night and in the middle of the night went through his phone and there it was another text from a female and him talking about how beautiful she is and how much he cant stand me. It hasnt happened in awhile and I THOUGHT everything was going good. But apparently not. I dont want him to know I went through his phone but I want him to know that I know what he did. I dont know what to do but its eating me alive walking around and knowing he has been tellling a girl how pretty she is, how he use to have a crush on her, and that he cant even stand me. What do I do? I need him to know and Im sure theres no way of telling him unless I tell him I broke his trust and went through his phone again. Please help. Im hurting AGAIN!