This is a very long story, like a soap opera, but it does involve my job and I am in need of some advice! To make a long story short, 6 years ago my husband cheated on me and she got pregnant and had a son. My husband has only seen the child a few times and when he finally admitted that it happened, I encouraged him to have a relationship with the child. It was more like me "dragging" him to the girl's house because I could tell that he really wasn't interested. We kept the child for one weekend and he was introduced to our 4 kids that we have together. That was over a year ago-we have not seen the child since. She sent me messages on Facebook asking me to ask him to borrow money for the daycare-he refused to give it to her and told me not to tell him any more messages from her and basically that he doesn't want to be "bothered" with the child. He also told my kids that he didn't want to be bothered with their brother. The girl was in school to be a nurse and now has gotten a job where I work. I work in the same field but I am not a nurse yet. The boss is friends with her and helped her get the job. I do not feel threatened because I do my job and am a good employee. I am afraid though that she will start talking and that people will blame me for what has happened. I smile at her and treat her very nice and have welcomed her to our facility. We work with alot of gossiping females that would some for there to be some drama on the job but I refuse to let that happen. I have only told one person who she is and together we are trying to figure her out-one day she might speak but she is not carrying on any conversations about the child, my children, or my husband. I don't whether I should mention anything to her or not-I have not told my husband that she is working with me. Maybe she has moved on and don't want to be bothered either. But I do feel bad and feel that I am somehow in the middle of this situation.