I just started a new job about a month ago and it seems as though I do the lion's share of the work. I knew this when I took the job and I am just trying to get along with my co-worker as best as I can. I do most of the paperwork and she handles the phone calls. My MIL died last week and I emailed her to let her know. She was supposed to supply the information to the School Board. She didn't, someone else had to do it. I asked her for a paper regarding a day off and she told me she was too busy, so I found the paper and filled it out myself. The whole office, including the principal, assistant principal sound like there is a party going on sometimes. She left early twice last week, she said she didn't take a lunch and left an hour early. My DH tells me not worry, just do my job, but it is irritating. Can't go to the principal as she loves her. How can I handle this without letting it kill me?