PIOG - how close is your self esteem, self worth tied to your looks?
Can you think of yourself as not pretty or beautiful and still have good self esteem?
I will try to make the back story short : one of my close friends has horrible self esteem, she lets her husband talk down to her and makes her feel so small, doesn't stand up for herself (I could go on) so we were talking to her about feeling better about herself. and I was brought up and because I don't think I am beautiful, she said that they should talk about my self esteem also.
I tried to explain that the two things are not tied together. Because I don't care if I am considered beautiful, is different than feeling bad about my looks. (I was told that i wasn't making sense, so I figured I would see if anyone else got it)