DH reminded me that we need to make sure we set aside a gift for Steph to open whher sister and nephews come over on Christmas. This is because they never bring her anything. Not even a dollar store coloring book. Last year she asked if she had anything to open while the boys were opening their gifts. This year, we will have something.
BUT, DH said to not get the oldest daughter anything. He says this is because she can't be bothered with getting anything for Steph, can't manage to give any concern about anyone and is always asking for help in the way of money, items, etc. I don't know how I feel about this. I already sent off the middle daughter's gifts (the one in Japan).
BTW, the older girls are 27 and 22. The boys (grandsons) are 4 1/2 and 1 1/2.