Ok I really don't know what to do right now. I just got a call from the daycare director at my son's daycare. Its a childcare center associated with my work. They had a survey they handed out asking parents to fill out for their accreditation renewal coming up. Well I guess they were short some surveys. I filled mine out when they had a second request that they put on the message board at the center. I filled it out and wrote one negative thing. It had nothing to do with my son or his teachers, but I saw another teacher do something I found was inappropriate and goes against their polices. So I wrote that in the comments section, sandwiched between two glowing happy comments.
Well… today I get a call from the director asking if I turned in a survey recently and if I had any negative comments. She wanted to investigate it further but since the surveys are ANONYMOUS they were having a hard time tracking who wrote it. She said it kinda looked like my handwriting so she thought she'd ask me. 1. I no longer trust and will never fill out anything else for them. 2. It is completely wrong that she contacted anyone regarding an anonymous survey. My guess is that even though I tried to be discreet, someone saw me. She can't know all parents handwriting. They have 4 baby rooms plus 2 -5 year old rooms. I didn't care I still lied. It was wrong she called me. I feel like someone should know she's done this, its unethical. However, if I'm the only one she called and I report her, she'll know it was me who complained about her. These people are involved in my son's childcare and I don't want to take a chance of it affecting his care. I said all wonderful things about his teachers. It was a teacher from another room completely.
Let it go?