So here it goes. My DH is a SAHD and he doesnt do anything other than watch our daugter!! I work M-F 830am-5pm then have to come home do all the cleaning the cooking and everything!!! I dont have a washer or dryer in my house ( I dont even have hookups for one) so therefore i have to haul my dirty laundry to my brothers, moms, or father-in-laws on the weekends when im off just to do it i usually have at least 6 loads of clothes by the end of the week to do. My DH and i had both agreed on him quitting his job and staying home with our daughter because he was only bringing home around 250 dollars every two weeks after taxes (7.25hr and only got anywhere between 10-15hrs a week where he was working) and we was paying around 150-175 every two weeks to my mother-in-law for keeping our child. I got a better job paying alot more than what i had and we come out ahead by him staying home and us not having to pay her to keep her granddaughter. But like i said he doesnt do ANYTHING around the house. He doesnt cook, clean, do dishes, do laundry (and he could easily take it 20 min up the road to his dads and do it while im at work), haul off the trash or anything. He just sits around or lays around all day watching tv. Then has the nerve to complain to me about not having any clean clothes, or the house being a mess, or not getting to eat dinner until around 8pm every night ( he doesnt even lay anything out of the freezer to thaw for me to cook when i get home so i have to wait until something gets at least half way thawed out to cook). Dont get me wrong he is an AMAZING daddy to our daughter and he loves me and her both more than anything. But he is LAZY!!! i usally give him money for gas, skoal, spending money or whatever every week well today when i got paid he asked for his regular amont (100) and i set my foot down and told him NO that i was tired of having to do it all myself when he is there all day and could easily do some of the house work and help out. IDK what else to do i just feel like i never have anytime to do anything with my daughter becuase not only am i having to work my regular job m-f i have to work on sat and sun on getting cuaght up on my house work and everything. I was a SAHM for the first year of my daughters life and he didnt have to worry about anything i done it all he always had dinner on the table when he got home from work and everything. I am not saying that he should or needs to do it all i just would like a little bit of help. What would yal do or say????