my son just turned two in March. I have heard all the horror stories about the terrible twos but I never expected this and I just don't know what to do anymore. He fights about everything with me. I try to give him chances to make his own decisions, little things like what he wants for lunch or a snack and such. But no matter how hard I try I can't get him to listen to me. He kicks, bites, pinches, hits, headbutts and whatever else he can manage. I feel like he doesn't care and like I'm never going to get him to behave. when his dad leaves, as soon as that door closes his personality does a 180 and I don't know why. He listens to his dad for the most part. I mean occasionally he'll be disobediant but not much, you know just fighting bedtime and eating all of his dinner but it's not that bad when he fights his dad. I just don't know what to do. I feel so hopeless. I cry everyday because I feel so lost. Just last night he threw his full sippy cup on my foot because I was trying to make him stay in bed and I'm pretty sure now that it is fractured. That's the second time he's done that. I just feel like he hates me. What should I do?