my husband is M2F transgender. he's on his 3rd month of being back on hormones, and has finally started feeling female again. he's been putting on make-up, and I even saw him wearing his girl clothes again. really, he's just been a lot happier and a lot more comfortable with his body the past week or so, and things were going good, I was happy for him. well, he's been looking for a job, so I suggested a job I thought he would be good at. well, they told him that normally they only hire M2F who can sound female and pass..... that's the one thing that's hardest for him, b/c normally he has a deep voice, and it takes a lot for him to sound really girly (he can sound female with a lower range voice, but not the "girly" high pitched voice.) this has been a really big blow to him, another reminder that he wasn't born the way he feels. I think of him as female, he looks female (even more than I do, he's a really pretty girl!) and before this, he felt and acted female again (he was even complaining he felt like a pregnant chick b/c he had so many cravings from the hormones lol.) I've been trying my best to make him feel better and see how beautiful he is, and how well he passes in public (even before the hormones, he was reffered to as "Ma'am" whenever we were out and about), it's just the phone thing that is hard b/c they can't see him. I dunno what to do anymore to show him that he is a woman in all matters that count (as far as me, and generally public perception).... any ideas?