HEy yall im new to the group! i have three boys that are 6,5, and 4. well i shouldnt say i have them my uncle in massachusetts adopted them becausei was in a real bad place. their father was a very abusive man mentally and sexually he raped me on countless occasions. but i stayed for the boys because i didnt want them to be from a broken home. Then my uncle came to came out for my sisters wedding and he saw how i was. i was severely depressed not eating at all. i was so detached from the world at the time and i was so underweight and i couldnt take care of myself let alone my three angels. it was the hardest decisin in my entire life to let him adopt them but i knew that he could give them a better life than i icould. and they have an amazing life. and are happy and are well taken care of. we skype with each other every other sunday. but it hurts so much to be away from my babies especially seeing other kids and their families. but i am so greatful to my uncle. and i am so happpy that they are happy! and honestly i dont know if i should be on cafemom because my kiddos arent with me :(. but i would like t omake friends with moms that are in similiar positions and such. if you have any more questions ask away! sorry its so long!