This is Sara, My dd, we have a open adoption, Ive posted in here a few times & love this group! And need more advice.
So our daughter has alot of medical issues, and we have been very open with her firstmommy! My problem, she blames herself, She parents 4 children all healthy, and feels like she couldve done something different & all would be fine. Reality is, nothing would change it, she is so wonderful & I know its natural, but how to comfort her? We talked on the phone a few wks ago and I could hear the distress, same as mine when I heard the news :(
Thank you for all the help!